HAMARO, ETHIOPIA – In an effort to make marriage more accessible, religious leaders and regional authorities in Ethiopia’s Somali region have taken decisive action against expensive wedding customs that have become financially crippling for families.
The Islamic Affairs Council in Hamaro, with support from local officials, has introduced new guidelines banning excessive practices that have turned weddings into grand displays of wealth rather than meaningful cultural and religious ceremonies.
The directive prohibits several costly traditions, including the slaughtering of camels, extravagant engagement gift exchanges, and the distribution of khat and cigarettes at celebrations. Religious leaders argue that these customs—once symbolic—have evolved into financial burdens that discourage marriage rather than encourage it.
Sheikh Abdirahman Rashid, head of the Islamic Affairs Council, emphasized the need for reform, stating:
“Marriage is becoming inaccessible. What was once a sacred act has become a performance of wealth. These customs were meant to honor—now, they demand a price.”
Among the customs facing scrutiny is gabaati, a tradition that originally symbolized goodwill between the groom’s family and the bride’s neighbors. What once involved small gestures has ballooned into elaborate gift-giving, often requiring the exchange of camels—a practice that has placed unnecessary financial strain on families.
Community elders say these evolving expectations have pressured families into excessive spending, making weddings a source of stress rather than celebration. To ensure compliance, the new directive is backed by legal consequences. Families who violate the rules risk fines and possible jail time, marking a significant shift toward enforcing financial responsibility in marriage customs.
This move has sparked wide discussion in the Somali Region, particularly in towns like Godey, where previous attempts to curb wedding expenses failed due to social resistance. Many elders argue that traditions should remain untouched, while younger generations see the reforms as an opportunity to remove financial obstacles and encourage more marriages.While the initiative has drawn mixed reactions, it reflects broader concerns about the economic realities faced by young people. As communities adjust to the new regulations, the debate continues over whether tradition should evolve with modern challenges or remain firmly rooted in its original form.
For now, authorities hope that by reducing excessive wedding costs, more young people will feel empowered to take the next step toward marriage without fear of financial ruin.
